Aligning Expectations

1.   What is the purpose of your trip?

There are so many reasons we travel, from a dream vacation, a romantic weekend getaway, or to attend a special event. Acknowledging the purpose of your trip will inform all of your decisions; such as where you stay, where you eat, and the sites you see.

2.    Who is going?

Traveling solo, with a partner, or with a group are all wonderful, yet different experiences. The accommodations, restaurants, and activities should ideally be tailored to make the trip enjoyable for everyone.

3.    What is your ideal pace?

Are you constantly on the go, doing as much as possible in a day? Or do you prefer a leisurely pace even though this may require being more selective about what you do?

4.    Will you stay in one location or move around?

Do you enjoy discovering new places, moving on every few days to explore somewhere new? Or do you like to stay in one location and get to know it in-depth?

5.    What are your interests?

What are the top things that would break your heart if you didn’t do them? If traveling with a companion or a group, you may choose to alternate the types of activities each day, or even split up at times to pursue different interests.

6.   What is your general budget?

Expenses add up quickly, especially when traveling abroad. It may not be possible to do all the things on your bucket list, stay in a boutique hotel, and eat at stylish restaurants. Deciding what to splurge and scrimp on are personal decisions and deserve some consideration.

7.    What are your eating patterns or dietary needs?

Food can be such an adventure, and perhaps even the focus of your journey. However, it can also be stressful, especially if you have dietary restrictions or allergies. For instance, I have a gluten sensitivity and eat a plant-based diet; so, it’s necessary for me to research ahead of time and go armed with a list of restaurants and cafes. I’ve also learned that it saves time each day if we stay in an area close to these restaurants.  

8.   What time of the year will you travel?

I find this one to be very important. Depending upon the weather, it may be too hot or too cold spend long periods of time outside, which requires more indoor activities. Also, if it’s the high season, sites may be very crowded and require booking ahead or waiting in long lines.

9.   Have you been there before?

If not, then it’s good to factor in time to get your bearings. Also, it will take a little more time each day to figure out how to get to where you’re going, especially when navigating a new transit system.

10.  What are the cultural norms at your destination?

One reason we travel is to experience different ways of life; however, this requires openness and flexibility. If traveling abroad, differences may include the types of foods eaten and when, opening hours and days for shops and sites, and the availability of public restrooms.